Self confidence gives you the feeling that you are on top of the world and is unstoppable; that you can do anything you put your mind to; you feel great and look great; you walk with your head up and your shoulders back and you give out a nice aura to those around you. That sounds wonderful dose it not. If only we were all like that. When we were children we got all the love in the world until we got to a certain age. As newly born babies we would vomit and do unspeakable things on parents and friends and they would all laugh and thought it a big joke.

By the time we reach two years old, we are beginning to be labeled the terrible two. Our antics are no longer funny and we were faced with a string of no, do not do that, sit down, you are naughty and so on. The punishments then started in earnest. We were then sent to school and things become considerable worse. We are sent to the headmaster, excluded from class, excluded from school, too extrovert, too introvert, labels upon labels. By the time we have been on the planet for fifteen years if we did not have some sort of problem we are extremely lucky.

Does self confidence play an important part in the type of personality we have? I would say yes. Lets assume that you are in your late teens, male and five foot tall. It would take a very strong willed man to rise above this, no pun intended, and get on with his normal life. Socially, height is a determining factor in how we see and treat people. A man of six foot can be much more confident then our five footer.

The same is true for people of colour, overweight people and the disabled to name a few. The list can be endless, hair colour, eye colour, shape of the eyes, and size of feet. Gosh as human beings we do have problems. Do most of us have the confidence to speak before a crowd? When you are lacking in confidence doing a task as speaking in public or making a presentation to your workmates can be terrifying. People get nervous, anxious, and panic stricken, except politicians, at the thought of getting up from their seat and saying something in public. We all want to do our best and show to the audience that we are not scared but for most of us this is not realistic.

The trouble is that in our modern world and in your every day life dealing with confidence is the key. There are times when we have to fight, verbally, for our rights in shops, bars, supermarkets or on the bus. We have to be able to confidently say no to our family, those who want to walk over us, and mean it. No to our spouses, not tonight; no to our children we cannot afford that toy at this time, no to our employer you promised to take the kids skating tonight, and so on.

The trouble is that for so many of us it is so difficult to muster up enough confidence to do any of that and outside help is sometimes needed. Today is the day for some help. Visit my website.

Theresa Williams is a grandmother of two and a part time farmer. She loves information, loves to impart some of her knowledge gained through life. For more info on the above article visit http://verro.bravehost.com/

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